{"id":4625,"date":"2013-03-21T02:30:40","date_gmt":"2013-03-21T08:30:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/19.org\/?p=4625"},"modified":"2013-04-28T03:40:31","modified_gmt":"2013-04-28T09:40:31","slug":"kibarlik-budalalari-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/19.org\/tr\/kibarlik-budalalari-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Kibarlik Budalalari"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kibarl\u0131k Budalalar\u0131!<\/b><\/span><\/p>\n

<\/b>Edip Y\u00fcksel
\n<\/em>26 Ocak 2012
\n<\/em>www.19.org<\/p>\n

\"Hypocrite\"<\/a><\/p>\n

“\u2026. \u00a0gibi son derece kibar, bilgi birikimli ve donan\u0131ml\u0131 bir insana kaba davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 k\u0131n\u0131yorum.”<\/p>\n

“Kibar”?<\/p>\n

Evet, kat\u0131l\u0131yorum. O, kibar bir arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z.<\/p>\n

“Bilgi birikimli”?<\/p>\n

Evet, ortalaman\u0131n \u00fczerinde bir bilgiye ve \u00e7ok ustal\u0131kl\u0131 bir edebi yetene\u011fe sahip; ama bu onun her konuda birikimli oldu\u011fu anlam\u0131na gelmez. \u00d6rne\u011fin, matemati\u011fe kafas\u0131 basmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 kendisi itiraf etti, ama daha sonra 19 mucizesine kar\u015f\u0131 cahilce ele\u015ftiriler y\u00f6neltmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Felsefe konusunda da birikimsiz bir arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z\u2026<\/p>\n

Ancak, “kaba davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z”?<\/p>\n

Buradan beni su\u00e7luyorsan, kat\u0131lm\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n

D\u00fcnyan\u0131n en kibar ve bilgi birikimli adam\u0131 bile olsa, birisi “Ben Allah’a inan\u0131yorum, ama Allah bana \u015f\u00f6yle dese hi\u00e7 takmam!” ve benzeri c\u00fcmleler as\u0131p onlarla hava att\u0131 m\u0131 “son derece kibar” s\u0131fat\u0131na ek olarak “son derece \u00e7eli\u015fkili ve son derece Allah’a kar\u015f\u0131 nank\u00f6r” s\u0131fatlar\u0131n\u0131 da kazan\u0131r. Bu arkada\u015f bir mesaj\u0131nda kibarca Allah’a kul olmay\u0131 egosuna yediremedi\u011fini ilan etti.<\/p>\n

E\u011fer, arkada\u015f\u0131m\u0131z Kuran’a ve Allah’a inan\u0131yor ise, Allah hakk\u0131ndaki s\u00f6zleri hi\u00e7bir tevile imk\u00e2n vermeyecek \u015fekilde \u00e7eli\u015fkili, ar\u0131zal\u0131. Bu \u00e7eli\u015fki ya onun iki ipte birden oynamak istemesinin bir sonucudur veya kibarl\u0131\u011f\u0131yla orant\u0131l\u0131 olarak bu konuda hi\u00e7 de birikime sahip olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, alabildi\u011fine cahil oldu\u011funu g\u00f6steriyor.<\/p>\n

B\u00f6yle olunca, bunu kendisine hat\u0131rlat\u0131p ele\u015ftirmek niye yanl\u0131\u015f olsun? Birisi kibarca en sa\u00e7ma sapan, en \u00e7eli\u015fkili iddialar\u0131 edebiyatla ambalajlayarak ast\u0131 m\u0131 ele\u015ftiri oklar\u0131ndan emin mi olmal\u0131?<\/p>\n

Kibar sofistler seri katillerdir. M\u00fczik, dans ve kibarl\u0131k budalalar\u0131n\u0131n alk\u0131\u015flar\u0131 e\u015fli\u011finde c\u00fcmlelere takt\u0131klar\u0131 susturucularla hakikat avlarlar..<\/b>. Bu tip arkada\u015flar\u0131n kibarl\u0131klar\u0131ndan ve edebi ifadelerinden etkilenen muhataplar\u0131 e\u011fer kibarl\u0131k budalal\u0131\u011f\u0131 rollerini oynasa bu kibar arkada\u015flar geriye hi\u00e7bir hakikat ve de\u011fer b\u0131rakmaz. Kokmu\u015f kokoreci bile ambalajlayarak taze biftek diye caka atarak kibarca satarlar pazarlarda.<\/b><\/p>\n

Kibarl\u0131\u011fa ve nezakete kar\u015f\u0131 de\u011filim, ama kibarl\u0131k tu\u011flalar\u0131ndan \u00f6rd\u00fckleri duvar\u0131n arkas\u0131nda \u00e7eli\u015fki \u00e7orbalar\u0131 pi\u015firip yedirenleri veya ahlaks\u0131z davrananlar\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcnce kibarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n bazen \u00f6zellikle abart\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve kibarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n insanlar\u0131 \u015farlatanlara, zalimlere, s\u00f6m\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fclere ve sahtekarlara kar\u015f\u0131 susturma ve etkisiz hale getirme y\u00f6ntemi olarak kullan\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcyorum. \u00d6rne\u011fin birilerini ele\u015ftirebilmeniz i\u00e7in illa onu \u00f6v\u00fcc\u00fc\/y\u00fcceltici unvanlarla anman\u0131z gerekti\u011fi beklentisi. B\u00f6yle davranmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z takdirde, beyinlerini dini veya politik liderlerinin sepetine teslim eden m\u00fcritler veya reaya taraf\u0131ndan sayg\u0131s\u0131z ve edepsiz olmakla su\u00e7lan\u0131rs\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n

Birisi bile bile kibarca yalan s\u00f6ylese veya kibarca en a\u00e7\u0131k bir ger\u00e7e\u011fi inkar edip \u00e7arp\u0131tsa, kibarl\u0131k budalalar\u0131n\u0131 memnun etmek i\u00e7in onun o yalan\u0131na ve \u00e7arp\u0131tmas\u0131na g\u00f6z yummam sevgili arkada\u015f\u0131m. Bu benim tavr\u0131md\u0131r ve herkesin benzeri tavr\u0131 bana kar\u015f\u0131 da g\u00f6stermesini beklerim. Zira Hak ve hakikat, kibarl\u0131k budalal\u0131\u011f\u0131na kurban edilmeyecek kadar \u00fcst\u00fcnd\u00fcr, de\u011ferlidir.<\/p>\n

Selam ve sevgilerimle…<\/span><\/p>\n

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Kibar sofistler seri katillerdir. M\u00fczik, dans ve kibarl\u0131k budalalar\u0131n\u0131n alk\u0131\u015flar\u0131 e\u015fli\u011finde c\u00fcmlelere takt\u0131klar\u0131 susturucularla hakikat avlarlar… Bu tip arkada\u015flar\u0131n kibarl\u0131klar\u0131ndan ve edebi ifadelerinden etkilenen muhataplar\u0131 e\u011fer kibarl\u0131k budalal\u0131\u011f\u0131 rollerini oynasa bu kibar arkada\u015flar geriye hi\u00e7bir hakikat ve de\u011fer b\u0131rakmaz. Kokmu\u015f kokoreci bile ambalajlayarak taze biftek diye caka atarak kibarca satarlar pazarlarda.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1180,11,1281],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-4625","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dil","category-edipyuksel","category-tartisma-metodu"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/19.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4625","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/19.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/19.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/19.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/19.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4625"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/19.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4625\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/19.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4625"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/19.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4625"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/19.org\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4625"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}